Yaar, mujhe burger na kaho please.
I meant keh trying to force someone to do something leads to fights and shit. Pehle hi banda soch samajh ke shadi karay. If you try to enforce your opinion on others, what's the difference between you and Taliban?
Apni accountability ziada zaroori hai pehle btw. Har koi apni accountability karay and follow Islam or your respective religion or societal morals/obligations and no one would ever question anyone.
The burger remark was not specifically aimed towards you, it is aimed towards those men who have emasculated mindset due societal conditioning.
Here is an analogy:
If you do something wrong, would your parents not advice you against it? If you continue to repeat the wrong, would your parents not penalize you? Key thing is "accountability" of wrong/bad behavior.
Their is law and order system in a society to prevent its decay; similarly, their should be rules and boundaries in a relationship to prevent its decay.
Enforcing your opinion on others is not a crime if you are not in the wrong. Your focus should be on the context and not simple black and white connotations. Relationships are not black and white matters.
Taliban analogy is extremely lame and pathetic, your boss gives you orders and enforces his opinions upon others in the work environment, why he does this? To fulfill his obligations to the organization, abide by its rules and keep it afloat. So should the boss be equated with Taliban?
I am not sure why you are twisting my point towards "apni accountability." Of-course, wiser spouse is likely to take charge in a relationship. Just like an organization, a family also needs wise leadership to prevent its decay and destruction.
Also, "apni accountability" logic does not realistically applies to the society, because "laton kai bhoot baton sai nahin mante." A corrupt person needs to learn a lesson the hard way or he will never.
Samaj aai? Lagta hai kai aap ne dunya ki ground realities ko sahi nahin pechana abhi taak.
How about beating your wife to control her?
Why just put the foot down and say you can't wear this.
She still goes out and wears a sleeveless ... start beating her...
Show her you're the man....
Hit her hard !
Mard mard mard.... Again my case rests... Male dominated society with male chauvinists abound !
Why do you need to beat your wife to put an end to her questionable behavior? Their are other ways to penalize your spouse to make her realize the errors in her ways.
Apne mindset ko broad karo. Matters of life are not so black and white.
If your wife does not respects your decision, then you shall warn her first. If she doesn't takes your warning seriously, you can choose to not sleep with her. If she still doesn't gets your point after some days, you tell her to don't come back to the home unless she realizes errors in her ways. Let her go outside wearing those dirty dresses but you lock the door and do not let her get in your home unless she learns to respect your decision. Point here is not about enforcing your opinion on others, point here is about preventing decay of your marriage and making sure that their will be accountability for bad/questionable behavior.
Male chauvinist
bullshit logic have nothing to do with this matter. Choodoo mard (emasculated man) ki muashre mei koi value nahin hoti, yaad rakho.
God have given you strength and highly intelligent mind, learn to use both in smart ways. Learn to judge things in accordance with context and not as per black and white connotations.
If your own wife will not respect you, your kids wouldn't either. Get this printed on a stone.
A man is judged on the basis of his strength(s).
In an Islamic society, a man is expected to be the captain of the family. He have responsibility on his shoulders to provide roti, kapra and makaan to his family, he have the responsibility to prevent decay of his family, being wise. This is what "being the man" is about. The wife is expected to be obedient to her husband if he is not in the wrong, in this manner, family environment does not gets upset. The husband have the right to penalize his family members on bad behavior, should the need arise. Woman also have some rights in these matters but she needs to respect her husband and husband needs to prove his worth by fulfilling her needs. Once a man acts like one, he is going to be successful in his life in all of his aspects.
Burger or choodoo mard kuch nahin kar sakte, bahir logon ki dictation lete hain aur ghar main apni aurat ki. In ke bache bhi inko seriously nahin leite.
You decide.
If you cannot control your own sins/mistakes who are you to question your wife? Blind man showing way to others?
By the way apni is mulla mentality se nikjal ayo...apni aurat/biwi/beti k samney itni izzat kamayo k ankh band kar k tumhari baat waisey he maan ley. Aurat mard ki baat tab he nahi manti jab dil se uski izzat apney se be ziyada na karey, period. Agar tumhari aurat tumhari baat na maney to sharam kha k ye sochna chahiye ka aisa hua kyun...mei aur kya behtar kar sakta hun k meri itni izzat ho k meri baat manni jaye.
Zabardasti se tum izzat nahi kamatey sirf anpi marziyan he chalety ho...khuda bhi sochta ho ga, aurat jaisi nehmat kis ko dey de main ney.
So you are painting all men with the same brush? Why are you assuming others to be blind?
Do some reading on gender psychology, what women expect from men and what men expect from women.
Also stereotyping logic does not works. Some people are rotten to the core from inside and they will harm you in worst possible ways. Sirf mard kharab nahin hote, aurtoon bhi kharab ho sakti hain. Taale aik haath se nahin bajti.