Too bad. Yes i did go through most of stuff you mentioned above.The combination of alphabets below are written by someone almost your age, who has gone through one of the most exhilarating, enjoyable and ultimately depressing phases of one's life: Falling in love.
Just because we refuse to accept its existence doesnt mean that it does not exist. It simply means that the problem continues unresolved under the carpet, but it does go on.
Falling in love is epic at first, but sometimes issues arise which can prove to be terrible for both the individuals involved.
Here's a few tips to identify a self-consuming, bad relationship:
- You only seem to care about ONE person in your life.
- You stop caring about your family and your friends.
- You begin to ignore your friends to be with that ONE person.
- Your grades begin to drop significantly.
- You lie more often than you did before.
- You begin to steal money or lie about money.
If you find yourself in any one of these situations, ask yourself this: Is this what LordIT warned me about?
If the answer is yes, then consider where your relationship stands.
I dragged a bad relationship for 2 years hoping things would be better one day, they never did and eventually I lost almost everything.
My friends and family used blackmail and logic to help me understand that I was being absorbed by this bad relationship, but what I needed was a reality-check.
Let this thread be a reality-check for you young lovers.
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My friends and family told me to stay away from her, but i didn't wanted to listen to anyone about this.
i hoped everything will go alright one day, but no nothing went well.
Now she is married to someone i had a fight with in my university. and i am here continuing my live alone without her.
Its been long,
But still can't forget those days and especially can't forget her. i messed up my life then and still i regret why did i met her in my life and if i did met why did we go separate ways
i was like gone crazy about her for the first time i saw her, and i didn't had any words to talk to her.. i wanted to speak to her but i couldn't had courage for 1 whole semester...lol.
Anyways nw a days my best friend is my computer and my work.
Regards,
Syed Haider Hassan.
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