A thread about love.

[LordIT]

The combination of alphabets below are written by someone almost your age, who has gone through one of the most exhilarating, enjoyable and ultimately depressing phases of one's life: Falling in love.

Just because we refuse to accept its existence doesnt mean that it does not exist. It simply means that the problem continues unresolved under the carpet, but it does go on.

Falling in love is epic at first, but sometimes issues arise which can prove to be terrible for both the individuals involved.

Here's a few tips to identify a self-consuming, bad relationship:

- You only seem to care about ONE person in your life.
- You stop caring about your family and your friends.
- You begin to ignore your friends to be with that ONE person.
- Your grades begin to drop significantly.
- You lie more often than you did before.
- You begin to steal money or lie about money.

If you find yourself in any one of these situations, ask yourself this: Is this what LordIT warned me about?

If the answer is yes, then consider where your relationship stands.

I dragged a bad relationship for 2 years hoping things would be better one day, they never did and eventually I lost almost everything.

My friends and family used blackmail and logic to help me understand that I was being absorbed by this bad relationship, but what I needed was a reality-check.

Let this thread be a reality-check for you young lovers.

inb4blastwave lock

 

[Yasir]

Sounds like you went through a bad one recently yourself.

 

[Anurin]

Heartwrenching tale. :frown:
I love you too man. :heart:

 

[LordIT]

-.- This happened 2-3 years ago. Please dont make this into a 'aww lordit' thread :S

 

[Shary Bhallu TC]

:3 :3 :3

Now I am depressed

*sniff* TIGHT TIGHT TIGHT JEAA

 

[LordIT]

:s you guys suck.

 

[maxold90]

:crying: new guyz should learn some thing from it because after that experience when you come back to reality you realize how you behave with your parents during so called love period and now you can hardly face your friends and family which may even forgive but at that stage you cannot ignore your act . and the feel of guilt is getting in to your nerve so .....

 

[K3yser]

Haiiii Haaaaiiii....

woh bachpan k din! Kabhi hummm khoobsorat thaaayyy

btw kudos baray tight mokay p thread banaya hai Mr. IT! maza agayaa bhai waaahhh!!!

 

[kevn]

:s you guys suck.

Is this some kind of a gay Thread?

 

[Anurin]

:s you guys suck.

Awwwww. :frown:

 

[LordIT]

Is this some kind of a gay Thread?

If you think of it that way, I wont judge you.

 

[Major Aly]

First hand experiences in these type of situations are always better. Makes you a much better person for the future.

I know a thing or two about relationships, bad ones and good ones...

Most of the things that you stated are true and I can see you learned your lessons, I know about those things too first hand (except for the steal/lie money thing)

I cannot give anyone any advice and not in a position to do so, everyone has their own life, if they want to experience this thing then sure go ahead.
Getting in a relationship is easy, hell getting married is also easy, it is what comes afterwards, how to maintain it, how to look past the imperfections of your partner and how to sacrifice what you love the most to help the relationship stay stable.

 

[Blastwave]

:3 :3 :3

Now I am depressed

*sniff* TIGHT TIGHT TIGHT JEAA

Are you channeling Tuco?

 

[assasin42o]

Another LordIT thread.

We need something from [MENTION=40825]RAJNI[/MENTION] here.

About me, never fell in love, although I do get crush on girls which are hot, but I guess it's not called Love. And thanks for that.

 

[krazyhamad420]

- You only seem to care about ONE person in your life. ( NO I CARE ABOUT LOT OF PEOPLE )
- You stop caring about your family and your friends. ( YUP I HAVE STOP CARING ABOUT MOST OF FRIENDS BUT DUE TO UNIVERSITY LIFE )
- You begin to ignore your friends to be with that ONE person. ( I M IGNORING SOME OF THEM )
- Your grades begin to drop significantly. ( THEY ARE IMPROVING )
- You lie more often than you did before. ( I NEVER LIE , SOMETIME IN EXTREME SITUATION )
- You begin to steal money or lie about money. ( NO THATS A SIN )

But I still think there is some part in my heart that cares about her ^_^ but .................

 

[Anurin]

Getting in a relationship is easy, it is what comes afterwards, how to maintain it, how to look past the imperfections of your partner and how to sacrifice what you love the most to help the relationship stay stable.

This.

Are you channeling Tuco?

:lol:
Next thing you know, he'll start beating up people bloody with his bare hands. :lol:

 

[LordIT]

Most of the things that you stated are true and I can see you learned your lessons, I know about those things too first hand (except for the steal/lie money thing)

I cannot give anyone any advice and not in a position to do so, everyone has their own life, if they want to experience this thing then sure go ahead.
Getting in a relationship is easy, hell getting married is also easy, it is what comes afterwards, how to maintain it, how to look past the imperfections of your partner and how to sacrifice what you love the most to help the relationship stay stable.

I spent around Rs. 10,000 on calls in one month . Warid-to-Ufone. Never bothered to change sims :S.

This thread isnt an advice thread. The problem with advice is that everyone seems to have one for you, and the other problem is we usually never follow advice.

This is a reality check thread, for people who want a reality check. Most people live in fantasy when they're in love.

 

[Yasir]

For me personally, first time relationships were always misinterpreted as Love and then one would find all sorts of illogical and irrational reasoning to avoid losing the other person. One comes out much better when the ship has sunk. (sm1) Provided me with motivation for a lot of stuff in life and I can't say I'd go back on anything because of what I have achieved manifesting on the negativity.

 

[assasin42o]

^^ And you're still hunting for poondy?

 

[Spiderman3000]

Guess you didn't read the Mystrey Method book