That's just you then. I know people who pray 5 times a day, fast, and in the end of the day, would do that whenever they get a chance. What's the point of this if you're just fooling the society by your holierthanthou attitude?
I don't know, but people I've seen, didn't give it a second thought when have seen an opportunity. And nobody is solely blaming girls here, it's just that taali aik haath se ni bajti.
I wasn't talking about myself.
I am just saying here that I'd prefer the Western culture anyday.
Here, if a girl is married, she has to compromise in every way, even if the guy turns out to be a psychopath. If she separates, our culture will morally kill her, saying that she is a hoe. While in west, if a girl doesn't like the guy, she could openly admit it and move on.
Here, before everything, we have a concept of Jahaiz. The more jahaiz she brings, the more respect she gets.
Here, in rural areas, men pressurize the women to deliver a BOY. It still happens, so you can't deny that.
And s*x before marriage is getting way common here too. So either you can accept it, or blind-fold yourself.
So why just not get rid of this all drama at once instead of fooling yourself by considering that this culture is as best as it can get?