how to over-come possesiveness?

[Syavash]

wo wo..
cool down

U got it wrong.

Some one said it right.. never judge any one by his internet appearance.. he may be not like u think he is.

Sure every body has the right for freedom and i already have posted.. that's what i do, u do as u like...

I don't keep them as dogs.. but as Obedient as a servant (it's a metaphor.. nothing like a real 'servant')..
I respect girls but i don't like disobedience and i don't like compromising on many other things
I never lie to them about any thing and i expect the same from them.. i hate lies

these are my simple rules.. if they break any rule.. if they ever lie or dis obey me then they are off my book.. off from my Phone, heart, mind and my world and then there cries are nothing to me but water... because when i am true i deserve the same

I don't prison them.. they have liberty to choose, but they choose me and my ways.

What [MENTION=2726]PakEstore[/MENTION] is beyond your level of understanding. And the understanding of most men in our society. If you think keeping people under your thumb will lead to happiness, you are sorely mistaken.

 

[Zeus MK]

What @PakEstore is beyond your level of understanding. And the understanding of most men in our society. If you think keeping people under your thumb will lead to happiness, you are sorely mistaken.

hmm.. (sm1)
and what i do and said is beyond your understanding... My happiness and satisfaction is some thing else that you won't get.. and my experience in life is very practical.. you will understand that idealogy later..

Kher let's not get off topic

 

[LordIT]

Macho mannnnnnn.

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[Zeus MK]

Macho mannnnnnn.

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:fp1:talk about the OP......

 

[Syavash]

hmm.. (sm1)
and what i do and said is beyond your understanding... My happiness and satisfaction is some thing else that you won't get.. and my experience in life is very practical..
Kher let's not get off topic

To each his own I guess.

you will understand that idealogy later..

Not really.

 

[Blastwave]

Enough with the off topic crap.

 

[ikonox]

well, I needed few guidelines and I have gotten enough. Thank you everyone.
Especial thanks to [MENTION=6806]Zeus[/MENTION]-mk [MENTION=13410]Syavash[/MENTION] [MENTION=6655]LordIT[/MENTION] [MENTION=4990]AlienX[/MENTION] [MENTION=28]USUF[/MENTION] [MENTION=7180]assuc[/MENTION] (thx)
I have learned and concluded that possessiveness itself is not as bad as I had thought it to be! (Though it becomes very confusing when it pushes its limits to jealousy or something like that.)
Plus, focusing more on broader image of relationship helps a lot. One has to be tolerant to run a relationship properly.

It is all about trust and self-confidence. Confusions of possessiveness can be solved from the inside of the person.


Most of the suggestions on this thread helped me, directly and some helped me indirectly.
I am thankful to PG for giving me a platform to discuss on. Also thanks to all those whose took time to answer me!
@Blastwave can close this thread now!

 

[Blastwave]

Thank you everyone.