Getting married inshAllah <3 , need wishes and kind advices :)

[Fkhan]

Dear PG friends, Alhumdolillah I am getting married next month. I started this thread so I can benefit from advices from you guys. Pl advice me regarding anything that you think might be helpful for me, for example recommendation regarding catering, banquet, dress, decorating bedroom(especially) , relationship/behavior issues that i should be careful about (like naraz phuppi) , honeymoon trip etc etc. You can share your personal or instant family experience as well.
I hope you people are not going to mock or think it is funny, I am seeking your advice because I am kind of somewhat young guy doing all the arrangement myself all alone.

 

[Spartan 117]

Well, Congratulations bro. Hope you two live a happy, contended long life.

As for the rest, I have no experience with that stuff so can't help you out there.

 

[Kane]

Looking forward to this thread myself...:baby:

 

[Shary Bhallu TC]

Congrats on getting married soon. I too am unmarried and have no experience with the stuff you require help with.

 

[EmZohan]

You are getting married next month and you dont have place booked yet?

 

[gforgamers]

naraz phuppi it is true Brother her family may Phuppian hi Phasadi hoti hain . banquet Hall is Good option coz Next Month Rain starts to much so carefully about it . . .


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[RAJNI]

DONT DO IT = i swear ... this comes from my personal - family - friends - elder social gatherings - married people (many) i know

MARRIAGE is most definitely a game of SORROW

and i GUARANTY u will get to know after 3 to 6 MONTHS

after-all UR life UR BODY ur RULE

do EXACTLY what u LIKE COZ iits summer and most probably u r :heat:

 

[fayaz99]

DONT DO IT = i swear ... this comes from my personal - family - friends - elder social gatherings - married people (many) i know

MARRIAGE is most definitely a game of SORROW

and i GUARANTY u will get to know after 3 to 6 MONTHS

after-all UR life UR BODY ur RULE

do EXACTLY what u LIKE COZ iits summer and most probably u r :heat:

Bada Zalimm banda ha.. baat b utni hi zalim kar gaya ufff..:heat:

well ek na ek din to shaadi honi hi ha.. so aj kare so ajk kal kare so Aaj..

well this husband wife relation is based on trust and do or die... ya biwi ki sun lo ya apni suna lo.. be ran mureed or be king..

i am engagned.. got love marriage. and i am feeling also the behave and trust. etc..

yeh larkiaan bs. samaj se bahir henn,, doesnt matter love or arrange... unpredictable

 

[MrALI]

I just came here to Read Comments

Rajni uff zalim

 

[Ottoman]

Before this thread gets overrun with retards and stupid advices, allow me to congratulate you in advance. Prayers are with you and your future spouse. Afraid I can't be of much help though.

 

[Fahad007]

Mashallah ji Congrates and good luck

Get married with as less money as possible save money for after the marriage ayashia for atleast 2 3 months because most people spend all the money on useless parties that they don't need actually
Marriage hall is good choice for Walima small gathering good food
Try to avoid Mehndi if u can
After marriage don't listen to anyone and enjoy ur days go out of the city long drives holidays in northern areas and enjoy ur first days they r they best and most fun
Regarding relatioship it's do depend on u and ur wife what kind of people u guys r
Be patients with her when she is arguing or angry just don't say anything even when u r angry don't talk also tell her not to talk when she is angry talk when u guys r sober to talk u will avoid many useless and stupid long fights thats way
Give her monthly pocket money choose any amount as u can afford or wish is suitable
Talk with her about expensis and she will listen and u will have less problems when u will have no money
Take her to shopping or window shopping and lunch dinner
Keep relatives away from ur relation ur personal life let no one interfare not even ur family and let not her family interfare
When she seems sad take her to her mothers home
Well brother their r so many more things u will hv to do to keep her calm and happy she is a lioness believe me all girls are
And please tell her about ur old relationships with girls before getting married u will be in heaven after marriage if she is an understanding girl
List can go onnnnnn and onnnn
And have kids without thinking too much when u will hold ur kid in ur hand their smile will make ur day
And don't give much f...k for angry relatives just send the cards and forget and enjoy ur days they r not worth it good relatives forget ur mistakes and make peace and bad relatives will make u bleed
Just smile for everyone and enjoy ur 2 3 days of Special couple and feel special


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[fayaz99]

Mashallah ji Congrates and good luck

Get married with as less money as possible save money for after the marriage ayashia for atleast 2 3 months because most people spend all the money on useless parties that they don't need actually
Marriage hall is good choice for Walima small gathering good food
Try to avoid Mehndi if u can
After marriage don't listen to anyone and enjoy ur days go out of the city long drives holidays in northern areas and enjoy ur first days they r they best and most fun
Regarding relatioship it's do depend on u and ur wife what kind of people u guys r
Be patients with her when she is arguing or angry just don't say anything even when u r angry don't talk also tell her not to talk when she is angry talk when u guys r sober to talk u will avoid many useless and stupid long fights thats way
Give her monthly pocket money choose any amount as u can afford or wish is suitable
Talk with her about expensis and she will listen and u will have less problems when u will have no money
Take her to shopping or window shopping and lunch dinner
Keep relatives away from ur relation ur personal life let no one interfare not even ur family and let not her family interfare
When she seems sad take her to her mothers home
Well brother their r so many more things u will hv to do to keep her calm and happy she is a lioness believe me all girls are
And please tell her about ur old relationships with girls before getting married u will be in heaven after marriage if she is an understanding girl
List can go onnnnnn and onnnn
And have kids without thinking too much when u will hold ur kid in ur hand their smile will make ur day
And don't give much f...k for angry relatives just send the cards and forget and enjoy ur days they r not worth it good relatives forget ur mistakes and make peace and bad relatives will make u bleed
Just smile for everyone and enjoy ur 2 3 days of Special couple and feel special


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yeh chezzz mere Azeez... :hug2: Golden words.. 10tolay ki baat kardi...!!! well done I Appreciate

 

[genious]

Mashallah ji Congrates and good luck

Get married with as less money as possible save money for after the marriage ayashia for atleast 2 3 months because most people spend all the money on useless parties that they don't need actually
Marriage hall is good choice for Walima small gathering good food
Try to avoid Mehndi if u can
After marriage don't listen to anyone and enjoy ur days go out of the city long drives holidays in northern areas and enjoy ur first days they r they best and most fun
Regarding relatioship it's do depend on u and ur wife what kind of people u guys r
Be patients with her when she is arguing or angry just don't say anything even when u r angry don't talk also tell her not to talk when she is angry talk when u guys r sober to talk u will avoid many useless and stupid long fights thats way
Give her monthly pocket money choose any amount as u can afford or wish is suitable
Talk with her about expensis and she will listen and u will have less problems when u will have no money
Take her to shopping or window shopping and lunch dinner
Keep relatives away from ur relation ur personal life let no one interfare not even ur family and let not her family interfare
When she seems sad take her to her mothers home
Well brother their r so many more things u will hv to do to keep her calm and happy she is a lioness believe me all girls are
And please tell her about ur old relationships with girls before getting married u will be in heaven after marriage if she is an understanding girl
List can go onnnnnn and onnnn
And have kids without thinking too much when u will hold ur kid in ur hand their smile will make ur day
And don't give much f...k for angry relatives just send the cards and forget and enjoy ur days they r not worth it good relatives forget ur mistakes and make peace and bad relatives will make u bleed
Just smile for everyone and enjoy ur 2 3 days of Special couple and feel special


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Wah bhai app nay tou meray cousin walay totkay likh diye jo wo mujhay aur dosray cousins ko after marriage suna raha tha.

Anyways congratulations on your marriage and good luck only married person can give u advice on this topic like Wolfy and Shyber.

 

[fayaz99]

Wah bhai app nay tou meray cousin walay totkay likh diye jo wo mujhay aur dosray cousins ko after marriage suna raha tha.

Anyways congratulations on your marriage and good luck only married person can give u advice on this topic like Wolfy and Shyber.

iska kuch output nikla kah nai... kia performance this after doing all of this..

 

[Fahad007]

yeh chezzz mere Azeez... :hug2: Golden words.. 10tolay ki baat kardi...!!! well done I Appreciate

Welcome dear thats what i learned in 2 years of marriage


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[Fahad007]

Wah bhai app nay tou meray cousin walay totkay likh diye jo wo mujhay aur dosray cousins ko after marriage suna raha tha.

Anyways congratulations on your marriage and good luck only married person can give u advice on this topic like Wolfy and Shyber.

Bhai shadi shuda bandy ka experience is like falling and getting up but remember ur wife will also be learning


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[genious]

iska kuch output nikla kah nai... kia performance this after doing all of this..

Yaar love marriage the lekin us ki taraf dekh kar ab lagta hai cousin ki parents nay arrange marriage karwaye the.One thing he says is doesn't matter how much u know a girl she will always surprize u.

Do teen cousins ki marriages dekh kar lagta hai its a big responsibilty they are somewhat changed after their marriages like matured a lot.

 

[genious]

Bhai shadi shuda bandy ka experience is like falling and getting up but remember ur wife will also be learning


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True after seeing many peoples after marriage i could not recognize them they somewhat become more understandable and they DO listen others patiently Wifes ki training ka asar hota hai shayad.

Anyways your tips are good will try to remember them i hope.Aur ye shadi par paisa zyada lagany say bachnay wale baat tou 100% correct hai app ki.

 

[Shyber]

Dear PG friends, Alhumdolillah I am getting married next month. I started this thread so I can benefit from advices from you guys. Pl advice me regarding anything that you think might be helpful for me, for example recommendation regarding catering, banquet, dress, decorating bedroom(especially) , relationship/behavior issues that i should be careful about (like naraz phuppi) , honeymoon trip etc etc. You can share your personal or instant family experience as well.
I hope you people are not going to mock or think it is funny, I am seeking your advice because I am kind of somewhat young guy doing all the arrangement myself all alone.

Congrats dude. You gonna set up a sheesha corner in the valima setup? lol.

I'd advice to save up on hall/banquet as much as you can. Get few but good dishes. Save money where-ever you can and spend it later on a honeymoon trip or something else like a nice car, good furniture, etc. People tend to spend millions on their wedding day and more often than not regret it, as they can always be better spent on an exotic holiday or better travels.

And after marriage, travel an adventure. Go out of the country, some some place scenic like Thailand or Maldives or even Malaysia. You can call me for advice too lol.

 

[Fahad007]

True after seeing many peoples after marriage i could not recognize them they somewhat become more understandable and they DO listen others patiently Wifes ki training ka asar hota hai shayad.

Anyways your tips are good will try to remember them i hope.Aur ye shadi par paisa zyada lagany say bachnay wale baat tou 100% correct hai app ki.

Hahaha bilkul thek kaha begamat make us like that

Koi award nai milta fazool kharchi ka khana acha khilao bus and with spare money must enjoy ur days baki after some months ur life will become normal


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