Would you let your GF wear anything she wants? Your wife?

why you r thinking that others will share their thought related to their wives with you or here in public?

Its not upto anyone to decide beyond a certain boundary, its her choice and hers alone. If it bothers you, you have to cope wit it just like any disagreement is coped with. If its a GF, its a different story, if its a wife well that's a separate problem.

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lifeinabucket said:

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That's the conundrum that someone is in.

What right does have a man over his GF or Wife? Clothing right? No or Yes?

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He has no right, he has a privilege. Unless someone's wife or GF is flirty to begin with, respect her choices, I guess. If its bad and you know its bad then rest assured she will learn her lesson. Most people if you stop them from doing something THEY REALLY WANT TO DO, often get the label of "Bad person" or "the person who is to be avoided"...at the end of the day you have to see if its the person you want and stay with or you want them to bend them inline with your ideals and change (which almost never happens).

I understand that conundrum, I have been in a similar situation but luckily my girl understood that I don't like it and never did that again, which was lucky because I could force her but that mostly harms the relationship in the long run. But I know some headstrong girls who would not back down, not without a fight. My personal suggestion let them do it. When they will get too much attention, and given the reputation of our street crowd, I think she will learn very quickly. And if she doesn't well then I would question the choice.

i like how OP's name is Life in a bucket.

Of course not. No wife of mine is going to dress up like a Abuses will lead to ban; unless she no longer wishes to be a wife of mine :finger:

Let's just put it this way it's the guy's wishes that hold more power in a marriage when both partners are muslim (obviously the woman has the right to say no to muslim hubby who proposes bayhoodgi). In a GF situation that depends on how much of a man you are to actually sway here towards your opinion, from scarf to cleavage or cleavage to scarf it's how you play em. If you can't play em well tough luck, not like it's your right to begin with but well if you can get her your way that'd be a bonus no?

I would second neox3d's take on the matter. One must not only honestly ask himself/herself whether he/she would have been able to cope with a certain situation by abiding with some exacting standards he/she is setting for the other person AND how the kind of expectations he/she has set for the other would affect the other partner. Perhaps, it will not be an issue; otherwise, it could lead to disaster. Everyone's different, afterall.

I would say it's the wife's/GF's choice as long as it doesn't attract undue attention which I'm sure they themselves will be uncomfortable with

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Its up to that gal/woman whether she want others to have respect in their eyes for herself or not.

lifeinabucket said:

The problem is when opinions are different for a different set of circumstances.

What would you say if the same guy who lets his gf wear anything ... wants her to suddenly be in a Hijab after marrying her or expresses such intentions after making her his wife?

Isn't that unfair for the girl, who has seen nothing but liberalness most of her life and is an independent headstrong girl?

Should such a clear dichotomy exist just because something has become legal according to certain norms of the society?

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The guy should have made his intentions clear before marrying the girl
It is unfair to the girl plain and simple

What ever she wears it should fulfill the main purpose of wearing, that is "Covering the body"