how to approach a psychiatric doctor fo a legitimate cure

[haroonshaikh]

There might be some people looking for support groups. Search on facebook and internet, maybe people with similar disorders can sit together and talk about it..

 

[staticPointer]

good idea though .



i once remember if you know karachi areas , walked from saddar area to clifton to defence when i was having manic depressive events i loudly chanted kalima e shahadat at bilawal house where there were several police personal thankgod i didnt get apprehended though , that moment was so embarrassing .

see.. nothing happens to you when reading Kalima !!!!

dunyia ki ko power kuch nei kh skti !!! just tell ur feelings to only "ALLAH PAK".. i bet u, u will be absolutely 1oo% ok !! never dis-hard

 

[Gamer150]

and here is another highly unsocial person....having one scar on his left bicep and two on his wrist of a razor blade.... but i like the way iam...(z)

 

[babloo]

thanks everyone for the feedback , i really appreciate each and everyone in this threading posting with positive thoughts , one thing i regret the most is i dont have a job not qualified enough ,about to turn 28 in april , matric finish , so this year i just have to complete atleast till bachelors , my mother always pokes me around saying why dont you get married i always tell my mother i dont have a job how could i get married , this conversations kills me from the inside , i dont socialize anymore most of my childhood friends have a job , i have done a lot of stuff that i cant even share on the forums and that happened to me , so thank you everyone please pray for me that i end up alteast doing my studies , i have made appointment with the doc on 9th january i hope all goes well .

 

[Jshak]

No harm in taking opinions, but here if u ask me honestly, this is not the right place. No offense

 

[mansoor93]

http://www.pakgamers.com/forums/f3/anyone-up-travelling-karokaram-highway-188474/

This is what you need.

 

[babloo]

No harm in taking opinions, but here if u ask me honestly, this is not the right place. No offense

thanks for not closing the thread atleast , next to youtube and facebook , pakgamers is the only places which calm my nerves down , thanks anyway bro .

still if anyone is familiar with bipolar disorder or its vitamin deficiency or relating to its disease like hypothyrodism , please do comment about it thanks .

 

[Jshak]

Any one out from the medicine line can help this person with pleasure ( any pg member )

 

[haroonshaikh]

Thyroid and vitamin deficiency accounts for only a minority of cases. Even if they are present, it is unlikely to have them given you have no other symptoms related to them.. But despite that if you want to get yourself tested, just get your blood TSH and B12 levels done.

It is quite impressive that you are concerned about your further studies and want to be self sustainable before you marry. It is never too late to get back to studies. Start afresh. Finish off with your Intermediate and get a Bachelor's degree. 4 years of graduation are one of the best times of one's life. You make friends that last forever. Get yourself enrolled into a college, make some friends, get a girlfriend, get social, get a degree, make more girlfriends. This is what college life is all about and you are really missing it..

Best of luck>!!!

 

[babloo]

Thyroid and vitamin deficiency accounts for only a minority of cases. Even if they are present, it is unlikely to have them given you have no other symptoms related to them.. But despite that if you want to get yourself tested, just get your blood TSH and B12 levels done.

It is quite impressive that you are concerned about your further studies and want to be self sustainable before you marry. It is never too late to get back to studies. Start afresh. Finish off with your Intermediate and get a Bachelor's degree. 4 years of graduation are one of the best times of one's life. You make friends that last forever. Get yourself enrolled into a college, make some friends, get a girlfriend, get social, get a degree, make more girlfriends. This is what college life is all about and you are really missing it..

Best of luck>!!!

i just had to check other hidden aspects of this disorder it could be me or these masquerading my mental illness you know doctors dont even diagnose other health related problems overseas are full on it , they check your symptoms besides your mental illness thats a real positive me for from not being ill treated by those illiterate doctors who always recommend admission , ect and dont evaluate or discuss other problems with you or discuss your childhood problems , i have to also check with another disease Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder , because in school i was lazy inattentive to the teacher , never doing my homework , stealing picking up other peoples stuff , not understanding what the teacher is explaining , losing normal stuff like pencil sharpeners , not enjoying myself in sport activities , always quiet , no communication with friends , feeling exhausted quickly when preparing for exams , arguing figthing with my friends on petty stuff , i have a lot of symptoms that i need to discuss , i remember my mother telling me i got a blow on my head when my dad was playing with me i cried a lot but didnt fainted from that , my dad never taught me when i did something wrong never ever discussed with me anything , whenever i did something that pushed his limits he only used to beat me , never ever i ever had a lesson taught by my dad and a lot continued which i should keep private .

when it comes to women i use to engage in conversations with them not anymore , when it comes to women am the shyest person , true my mother always teases me that i dont work or go outside which i dont do anymore no activities no hanging out with friends , time has a lot passed by i really had bad incidents with my friends because of my mental illness including my relatives .

another thing that killed literally was i am actually adopted but i didnt felt miserable or you know how the society reacts to it but my mother told me that dad was going to send me to ansar burney she said but she cried for me to not admit me their thanks to her i am here though but it killed me from the inside made me really sad when i learnt my father didnt want me anymore because i was weak in education. .

 

[haroonshaikh]

You have so much to thank Allah for. Only fortunate people get a mother like you. You have been diagnosed and treated to the extreme with shock therapy. There is only so much medicine's can do and i think they have probably done that in the past 6-7 years.

You just need to get an appointment with a psychologist because it seems it would really really help you if you had a person just to hear you out.. Now that Past is gone. It is the new YOU and the WORLD. Get up tomorrow with a new enthusiasm to get yourself admitted in college.. and don't worry about girl's. You will find them drooling over you in college life..

 

[babloo]

thanks to communicating i think i have solved half of my mental problems , nearly 13 years ago before that i was healthy and mentally quiet fit , i once overdosed myself with 10 ativan pills not intended suicide , 2 person rather molesters tried to challenge me that i cant eat them sleeping without sleeping so i accepted it and swallowed them one by one , afters hours i was nearly feeling asleep but the molesters thought i wouldnt go to sleep so they went away , i went home woke up the next morning half dead wasnt able to walk properly , thats how stupid i am nearly killed my self with these sleeping pills and how many health related issue i have created with them over the past few years that could be the cause of my bipolar manic and schizrophrenia events, i use to smoke regularly with hash and sometimes wouldnt even eat my lunch or dinner sometimes , then


they also tried mixing alcohol with gasoline and told me drink it , but i drank half of it was not easy and was not pleasing , nothing to be proud of .

again the inevitable happen here we go again ,
they again challenged me to a drug contest and i accepted it proudly it was bhang this time , so naive i was back then , i drank 4 glasses quiet comfortably and held it for a couple hours the two molesters also drank 2 glasses each but they vomited and ran away i stood in my house till the morning like a statue at my bed not moving an inch and bear the consequences for the rest of my life physically how much a body can take , these were my stupid moments in life that i have to tell the doctor about .

end story verdict for everyone younger in their teen age .

never engage with bad influenced people .
never accept a drug challenge you either be dead or end up in a mockery or end up well enough but dont try to be that nothing is proud in doing drugs you'll lose the respect afterwards .
never leave school life .
always share your life with your parents the ups and downs .
never do drugs never or to the extreme you''ll end up dead .

 

[Benighted]

i just had to check other hidden aspects of this disorder it could be me or these masquerading my mental illness you know doctors dont even diagnose other health related problems overseas are full on it , they check your symptoms besides your mental illness thats a real positive me for from not being ill treated by those illiterate doctors who always recommend admission , ect and dont evaluate or discuss other problems with you or discuss your childhood problems , i have to also check with another disease Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder , because in school i was lazy inattentive to the teacher , never doing my homework , stealing picking up other peoples stuff , not understanding what the teacher is explaining , losing normal stuff like pencil sharpeners , not enjoying myself in sport activities , always quiet , no communication with friends , feeling exhausted quickly when preparing for exams , arguing figthing with my friends on petty stuff , i have a lot of symptoms that i need to discuss , i remember my mother telling me i got a blow on my head when my dad was playing with me i cried a lot but didnt fainted from that , my dad never taught me when i did something wrong never ever discussed with me anything , whenever i did something that pushed his limits he only used to beat me , never ever i ever had a lesson taught by my dad and a lot continued which i should keep private .

when it comes to women i use to engage in conversations with them not anymore , when it comes to women am the shyest person , true my mother always teases me that i dont work or go outside which i dont do anymore no activities no hanging out with friends , time has a lot passed by i really had bad incidents with my friends because of my mental illness including my relatives .

another thing that killed literally was i am actually adopted but i didnt felt miserable or you know how the society reacts to it but my mother told me that dad was going to send me to ansar burney she said but she cried for me to not admit me their thanks to her i am here though but it killed me from the inside made me really sad when i learnt my father didnt want me anymore because i was weak in education. .

I don't know you, but I honestly think you are a good, reasonable person and that is very commendable for someone brought up under such circumstances and who thinks he is suffering from a mental illness. And the best thing: You are resolved to overcome your problems. That is an extremely positive sign. I feel obliged to say the same thing about your mother. I can understand it might be hard to be grateful for anything when you've had such a trying life, but you have a loving, caring mother to be grateful to and I'm sure you are grateful to her. In contrast to all the misfortunes you've suffered, your mother is one of those things in your life you can write proudly and happily about in your personal diary.

Nothing is lost. You are still young. You want to recover. You want live a good life. You have a future. Everyone has a future. Always.

Keep moving forward. The silliest thing a person can do who has been through so much is give up. All that you have been through has made you stronger (As the saying goes, "If it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger"). In a way, you are stronger than someone like me who has had a life of relative ease and comfort. It would be a waste of all the strength you have gained over the years if you simply give up. Silly, isn't it?

I really hope you can find a good doctor. You are a promising person with a promising life ahead. Don't ever forget that.

 

[FlAmEsWoRd]

bro seriously i will say dont waste your time on this.im waisting my time on this since my childhood all the doctors in pakistan are just really intrested in money not in your problems.believe me im waisting my time on this since my childhood and what happens in the end is just i waisted my money and nothing because i learned that no medicine can solve your life problems only you can.

 

[babloo]

I don't know you, but I honestly think you are a good, reasonable person and that is very commendable for someone brought up under such circumstances and who thinks he is suffering from a mental illness. And the best thing: You are resolved to overcome your problems. That is an extremely positive sign. I feel obliged to say the same thing about your mother. I can understand it might be hard to be grateful for anything when you've had such a trying life, but you have a loving, caring mother to be grateful to and I'm sure you are grateful to her. In contrast to all the misfortunes you've suffered, your mother is one of those things in your life you can write proudly and happily about in your personal diary.

Nothing is lost. You are still young. You want to recover. You want live a good life. You have a future. Everyone has a future. Always.

Keep moving forward. The silliest thing a person can do who has been through so much is give up. All that you have been through has made you stronger (As the saying goes, "If it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger"). In a way, you are stronger than someone like me who has had a life of relative ease and comfort. It would be a waste of all the strength you have gained over the years if you simply give up. Silly, isn't it?

I really hope you can find a good doctor. You are a promising person with a promising life ahead. Don't ever forget that.

it all started through my childhood when i was s******y abused then abused again then abused again i was a quiet personality didnt event told my parents about it until now , started disrespecting my parents , failing my 3rd grade ,gone through a tuberculosis ,lying all the time, losing stuff , not doing my homework , not listening to the teacher , aggression , stealing money ,impulsivity, anger issues, fighting most of the time with my parents , i still remember those events , i still have fear in me whenever i engage in a conversation with older people anywhere , screaming to my mother to get out of my room , stuttering at times when talking , psychologically those events did jolted me , i dont really take those events to my head but has some affects on me, this all turned me into a bad character around people i dont get along with anybody , i hate listening to my mom when she teaches me about the happenings around .

i just feel it is me or the events that happened to me is the cause .
atm i dont really feel like doing any thing that results in good for me , in 2006 i did give up on my self when i was going to admit myself privately in 1st year i had no idea why i did that , god i have missed so many years of my school life . why i cant explain , not easy moving forward too .

 

[aasghar55]

why not you just simply go out and participate in sports rathar then asking your self and degarding bro you really need a pack of fresh air go out and have some bro you will really feel batter inshallah dun't get upset underestimate your self each and every one of us diffrent in nature we do have some positive and negetive just try to find out what you are

 

[babloo]

bro seriously i will say dont waste your time on this.im waisting my time on this since my childhood all the doctors in pakistan are just really intrested in money not in your problems.believe me im waisting my time on this since my childhood and what happens in the end is just i waisted my money and nothing because i learned that no medicine can solve your life problems only you can.

true .

why not you just simply go out and participate in sports rathar then asking your self and degarding bro you really need a pack of fresh air go out and have some bro you will really feel batter inshallah dun't get upset underestimate your self each and every one of us diffrent in nature we do have some positive and negetive just try to find out what you are

me bro i need to share my past events with users to get to know whats the cause of my disorders because doctors tell that bipolar disorder is a gene inherited disease , so i could tell the doc about it , isolating myself and not discussing aint appropriate .

 

[maxold90]

true .



me bro i need to share my past events with users to get to know whats the cause of my disorders because doctors tell that bipolar disorder is a gene inherited disease , so i could tell the doc about it , isolating myself and not discussing aint appropriate .

dude don't consider your self as the only one , as like me and i think many other members here face through the situation that you mention (or similar one) , as my father was died when i was 4 years old and after that every one consider me and my family like some 2nd grade human , as its one of the harsh reality of our society , in all of my problems i am all alone , but i never give up and you know what because i took the responsibly of my family to fight continuously , i was never ever enjoyed my teen age neither my university life (as i did some par-time job along with it) and still struggling hard as i don't have parchi for job to which i start from assistant level job and now i am on officer grade . where you have to start fighting for the people whom love you most , even as pay back of there effort for what they did so far for you ......

 

[babloo]

dude don't consider your self as the only one , as like me and i think many other members here face through the situation that you mention (or similar one) , as my father was died when i was 4 years old and after that every one consider me and my family like some 2nd grade human , as its one of the harsh reality of our society , in all of my problems i am all alone , but i never give up and you know what because i took the responsibly of my family to fight continuously , i was never ever enjoyed my teen age neither my university life (as i did some par-time job along with it) and still struggling hard as i don't have parchi for job to which i start from assistant level job and now i am on officer grade . where you have to start fighting for the people whom love you most , even as pay back of there effort for what they did so far for you ......

sorry to sound ignorant or harsh but you didnt read what i posted , i went through a disastrous life even when my father was alive i was used as a tool , my mental state was not stable , your's was , my mother and father always thought that i was like this intentionally while i was diagnosed with tuberculosis which its med's have mood disorder side effects , i really hope that is the cause .

fighting and invisible disease and unexplained is quiet hard i dont feel normal at times for now am ok though , sorry to hear about your side may Allah give you a straight path .

 

[maxold90]

sorry to sound ignorant but you didnt read what i posted , i went through a disastrous life even when my father was alive i was used as a tool , my mental state was not stable , your's was , my mother and father always thought that i was like this intentionally while i was diagnosed with tuberculosis which its med's have mood disorder side effects , i really hope that is the cause .

fighting and invisible disease and unexplained is quiet hard i dont feel normal at times for now am ok though , sorry to hear about your side may Allah give you a straight path .

and yet you don't get what i try to say , i mean if you didn't try by your self then you cant able to rise form what every situation you are in (+ i said "or similar one") i am not comparing your life with mine , i am just giving you an example , that's it . Beside if i go to doctor then he will definitely assign me some disease . So fight it dude what ever this disease is and find the solution to heal it , socially or though medicines but nothing will work if you didn't try by your self .