Trying To Forget Someone

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crazyhassan

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phewww....
in 2011 i fell in love with a beatifull girl (cousin) but i didnt have balls to tell her . i used to visit her once in a year . when i visited her in 2012 my curiosity increased and asked friends to help me. i was in a serious trouble , then in aug 2012 i was somehow able to tell about my feelings and was waiting for her response , in start her response was very ignoring but after one month of hardwork the output came :p and she started taking interest in me ,, as she lived far far away from where i lived ( 24 hours drive ) ..

then we had a good relationship a very very good relationship,, and when i visited her in mid 2013 we had a very good time together . i lived there for almost 3 months.. then i had to come home ofc.. then my college started , and i had to take interest in studies instead of her,, there were distance between me and her.. then one day atlast i received a text of bye..... and thats it we never met and had a sit-n-talk situation... and its been 1 and half year we broke up.. we never had a contact with each other,,,

i wanted to move-on but m stuck,, when ever i try to workout or any exercise , it starts making me remind of her, because when we were toghether , i had a motivation so i lost a lot of weight by hitting gym alot means 20-22kg


but right now as she is not with me i am here again sitting in front of my computer dont know what to do more with this life, and i dont want her back as there are many reasons,, just i want to move on.... :(

i need a motivation and energy like i had back then ,,,,

right now this time is very difficult for me ,,,,
 

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if you TRY to forget her you will never succeed.. dont try just take it as normaly and indulge your self in studies, games or other activities. make another friend that usually helps a lot.
 

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if you TRY to forget her you will never succeed.. dont try just take it as normaly and indulge your self in studies, games or other activities. make another friend that usually helps a lot.
Whenever i try to game or exercise it reminds me about her.. and the energy goes downwards zero

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Its better to consult a psychiatrist

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I dont think so. It will make me a more weaker person that i am consulting a psychiatrist..
 

imlegend

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go out and watch the world as there is a saying "there are penelty of fishes in the sea " also seriously go watch WOLF of WallStreet ... and concentrate when leonado and jonnah smoke for the very first time ..u will understand :)

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btw what is your age ?
 

shahzadfootball

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go out and watch the world as there is a saying "there are penelty of fishes in the sea " also seriously go watch WOLF of WallStreet ... and concentrate when leonado and jonnah smoke for the very first time ..u will understand :)

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There are plenty of fish in the sea but nobody taught me how to fish xD
 

crazyhassan

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go out and watch the world as there is a saying "there are penelty of fishes in the sea " also seriously go watch WOLF of WallStreet ... and concentrate when leonado and jonnah smoke for the very first time ..u will understand :)

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btw what is your age ?
I think age doesnt matter bro.
My age is 20.




And yeah i have watched the movie but scared of failing .. i would be very thankful to anyone who will be willing to help me get rid of this :(
 

waleed3601

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this guy might be in love because from personal experience, a crush lasts for a maximum of 4-5 months (also proven by scientific studies) so im not sure what i can tell you because i had a mad crush once but one day it just suddenly disappeared lol. try watching a lot of movies, shows and get your mind off of her. anyway she's your cousin you should definitely oppress your emotions because that's just not right.
 

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Watching movies and tv shows have always helped... It's one the most proved easy way out to forget about everything else in this world. There are alot of great titles out there, you should start them.

And as someone said, ALOT of fish in the sea, this is the statement that keeps me motivated :D
 

HAMMER of THOR

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you should not forget people.. especially if they are relatives and i wouldn't comment on a relationship with a na mehram... but if you want motivation for workout etc then think of training for the day when your religion and country will need you... start something like boxing... if you really cannot get her out of her head and are depressed then i guess you should turn to the ishq e haqeeqi of Allah and His prophet saww... the greatest love you could ever acquire... and don't forget to love your parents after that as they are the greatest gift a human being can have other than having a childhood in a muslim home...
 

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Just One Sentence : ""Shoot Her & Your Self"...!! THE END
Supposedly, if this guy does shoot himself (Allah forbid), and law was prevalent in this country. You'd be partially responsible for his action. I've seen this kind of attitude before on PG and I'm not shocked since the forum is filled with kids. Just don't give him stupid ideas, please.

@OP, dude, it'll take time to get over it. There is really no other way around it.
 

maxold90

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SERIOUSLY , WTH , dude just read the poem again (as i believe its part of your course) 7 ages of man , you are at soldier age dude just go out and win the world instead of crying here at front of PC , because if you didn't enjoy this time of youth with your friends and achieved nothing , then hell , you will gonna cry so hard in future to waste such time on some girl , where there are thousand of beauties out there , go out and find some new .

and as i remember its not a first time you got this problem :S .

Edit : some time i feel like i am the only rascal in this world who got fell in for every next beauty around him , seems like with time being i lost my sentimentality inside of me , even the last time when does i remember i seriously got ill by this fell thing , there were two of them , one of them is my senior and the other one is junior in my school , but hell who cares as at the end of my school i lost them both , and its good to happen back then , because they aren't grown up as what i was expecting , plus now when i ever got encounter with them , there humor is not what i want . so whats a big deal , cause now i am mature to which i know my REAL ideal and its nothing like that i consider back then in my teen time .
 
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